DEAR HARRIETTE: I recently discovered that a relative I had a bad falling-out with years ago now lives in the same small city as me.
I moved here first, and I heard that they moved here for work. It’s a huge coincidence. They don’t know that I live here.
I’m afraid of running into them unexpectedly and not knowing how to handle the situation. What’s the proper protocol for running into someone you parted with on bad terms? Should I try to avoid them, or should I be friendly?
The last time we spoke, they basically told me that they hope never to speak to me again.
Coincidence
DEAR COINCIDENCE: What happened to create this friction? What was your part in it? Can you find a reason to apologize for whatever you did wrong? If you can, I recommend being proactive.
Reach out to this relative. Say that you learned that they live in your town now, and you would like to mend fences and get together.
Acknowledge that your last communication was tense. Ask if they are willing to reconnect and see if the two of you can move forward. You can also state that you know they said they don’t want to be in touch, but you thought this might be a second chance since you will be living in the same area. After that, the ball is in their court.
If you see them out and about, by all means say hello, but don’t take it further unless they seem receptive.
DEAR HARRIETTE: My sister has been using Ozempic for weight loss despite not being diabetic.
The misuse of the drug has resulted in a national shortage, which has caused serious implications for me as a Type 2 diabetic who needs it to manage my blood sugar levels. It’s uncomfortable knowing that my own sister is playing a role in preventing people like me from accessing such vital medication.
How do I tell her how hurtful her actions are without upsetting her or causing a fight?
You Don’t Need It
DEAR YOU DON’T NEED IT: Apparently, the use of this drug to treat obesity is common right now even though it is not officially approved for weight loss.
You can call your sister out on her use of Ozempic, though it may not make a difference. The real offender here is her medical provider. How is it that she has this medication in the first place?
Taking a step back, there are a few things for you to consider. Is your sister suffering from obesity? If so, she may be prediabetic, or she may even be diabetic and hasn’t told you. If she is working to get healthy, let her be. You cannot control her medication use anyway.
Instead of resenting her or fighting with her, invite her to work out with you or otherwise buddy up for fitness. As you talk about your health with each other, you can broach the subject of what meds you two use and the impact that has on others.
Harriette Cole is a lifestylist and founder of DREAMLEAPERS, an initiative to help people access and activate their dreams. You can send questions to [email protected] or c/o Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.
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