Miss Manners: I’m tempted to lie when strangers ask me what I’m doing

DEAR MISS MANNERS: In the middle of a business transaction, I’m often asked, “So, what do you have planned for the rest of your day?”

I have no interest in telling strangers what I’m doing the rest of the day, nor in extending a business transaction any longer than necessary. I prefer to share my personal activities with only my closest friends.

Even my hairstylist, whom I like very much, and who doesn’t chatter excessively (a trait I appreciate), has started asking me that question — sometimes two or three times in one appointment. With a sales clerk, at least I can dash out of the store. But with my stylist, I’m stuck there for almost two hours.

If I answer with my actual plans, such as running errands, it sounds so dull. I’m tempted to say, “Well, I’m running numbers for the mob, then fleeing the country.” But then I’d have to top that at my next appointment, and in any case, I don’t like lying.

I understand that they are at a loss for how to keep the small talk going, and this question is standard practice these days, but I feel that what I’m doing later is none of their business. Every time this happens, I’m at a loss for what I can say to politely change the subject.

GENTLE READER: Your boring errands may be your best defense.