OnlyFans mum Lucy Banks reveals why men WON’T date her

OnlyFans creator Lucy Banks has revealed she struggles to maintain romantic relationships with men because their jealousy and insecurity often gets in the way.

The Aussie model said she faces some unique hurdles when pursuing romantic connections.

She cited jealousy as an issue she has not been able to escape but pointed out it’s not always the result of the saucy interactions she has with other men online while she is working.

Rather, some men are simply jealous of how much money she earns.

“It’s bad enough when men get upset that I talk to other men on OnlyFans for my job,” Banks explained.

“It’s worse when they resent the amount of money I make, too.”

Banks has previously revealed she can make a whopping $2500 a day via the platform, which has allowed her to keep building her impressive property portfolio and pay her kids’ school fees.

And it’s not only “sexual services” that pay well on the platform.

Interestingly, she recently revealed it has been photos of her elbows and her sliding across her kitchen bench like a seal that thrills her subscribers and entices them to keep coming back for more.

The “connection-based” side of the adult platform also helps earn her the $2500-a-day salary.

Banks told PerthNow last month that her personalised content is starting to become more popular than the sexualised content the adult platform is known for, with polished content also losing its gloss — and amateur, homemade material all the rage.

However, despite becoming a massive success online, Banks remains frustrated that some men still “mistakenly believe” her profession condones infidelity.

“I hold myself to high standards, both personally and professionally,” Banks explained.

“In an industry that thrives on authenticity, trust and transparency, it’s important for me to seek the same level of loyalty and honesty in my relationships.”

She said commitment in a relationship is still very important to her.

“Men think it’s okay to talk to other women and not be loyal to me because of my job, and that’s not acceptable,” she added.

“Being in a committed relationship means unwavering loyalty and open communication; I do not tolerate secrecy or disloyalty.”

She said another issue that keeps cropping up is that some men don’t like the idea of her “private bits” being “out there for the world to see” or that strange men know who she is when she is out shopping for groceries.

“This is completely fair and understandable,” Banks conceded.

But she then added: “And you are not the man for me.”

She said her OnlyFans persona is what drives her business and for that reason, she needs a “secure man” who can handle what she does for a living.

“When you’re with me, you’re with the real me — authentic and honest,” Banks added.

“My career success demonstrates that I take good care of myself, I know how to be attentive to others’ needs and am disciplined and dedicated to my work.

“It would take a very secure and mature man who can truly appreciate and embrace the unique aspects of my life and career to be able to take me off the market.”

Banks became an OnlyFans model in 2019 when she left her marriage and her job in the banking sector and only had $60 to her name.

Suddenly a single mother to two children and unable to pay for basic expenses, she surprised herself by turning to “online entertainment” where she embarked on a lucrative career catering to the “deepest desires of strangers”.

Within three years, she had 3,700 subscribers and was raking in cash as a result of her “tireless work ethic” and desire to provide a more comfortable life for herself and her two young children.

“The pandemic ushered in a virtual world that more of us are living in every day, whether out of necessity, entertainment or the thrill of meeting new people and creating an exciting online experience,” Banks said.

“For me, it’s about freedom: having the time to be there for my family and being able to buy a home, necessities and fun stuff for my kids without worrying about how much money is in the bank.

“There are pros and cons to every career, but at this point in my life, this is what’s most important to me and I’m loving every minute of it.”